Happy New Year! I am very blessed to say I rang in 2019 CANCER FREE!
2018, you were tough, rough and brutal. A diagnosis of Stage IV gastrointestinal cancer, 12 rounds of triple chemotherapy, 17 hour surgery, 14 inch incision, 27 days in the hospital, heartbreak, my grandfather passing away, fatigue, frustration; but, you also gave me hope and patience, two of the world’s top doctors in oncology, a heart full of compassion, the most special guardian angel, endless naps (going to miss those!), and taught me you can still be your best self when feeling your worst. 2018, you gave me a new perspective that tough times do not last, but tough people do!
In late October I underwent a 17-hour surgery to remove any cancerous tumors in my body, which also required the removal of my gallbladder, spleen, appendix, 20% of my colon and small intestine, as well as, parts of my liver and bladder. Then, a team of doctors poured hot chemotherapy directly into my abdominal cavity at 107 degrees and rocked me back and forth for 90 minutes before removing the chemotherapy mixture and closing me with an incision from my chest to waist. Two days after my surgery the nurses came into my room and told me it was time to walk. I thought they were crazy! They could not be serious. I had more tubes and cords and machines on me than I could count. But these two women did not look like they were taking no for an answer so I promised I would try. I would try to put one foot in front of the other. That was the hardest thing I have ever had to do. It was painful and my heart was pumping like I was climbing Mount Everest. Then, day by day, it got easier. I, of course, got competitive with the other patients. I wanted to be walking the fastest and the furthest. I surely hope I had the advantage, as I was the only patient under 67 on my floor. By day seven I was walking over 18 laps (one mile) a day! The entire experience made me realize a lot of life is about taking the first step in any experience with a lot of faith and motivation… and to just keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Two weeks later and after having 60 staples removed, I was discharged from MSK in time for Thanksgiving. This was when the fatigue really set in. I was sleeping 16-18 hours a day. I was truly a bear in hibernation. The doctor said to not fight the sleep, that this was a very important part of recovery and sleep is when the body heals. I could have single handedly kept Netflix in business that week. Yes, Netflix I am STILL watching!
Christmas approached quickly and my family celebrated in New York so I could be close to MSK for follow up appointments. We had a wonderful Christmas. The four of us watched Christmas Vacation, Home Alone and Elf (repeatedly) and cooked a huge traditional Christmas dinner for all the doormen in Battery Park City and took trays of Christmas cookies and treats to the staff at MSK. You all have given so much love, support, prayers and time to my family this entire year that you inspired us to give back to others in New York during the Christmas season.
I have had three scans since my surgery and every scan has come back “No Evidence of Disease” or as I like to say in a high pitched, squeaky voice while jumping up and down… CANCER FREE! I will continue to get scanned every few months for the first year and then slowly the scans will become further apart. At my last appointment my oncologist told me the best thing I can do is go be a fun, adventurous, happy, 20 something year old in New York City. That was the easiest doctor’s orders I have ever received! I am so excited to move back to West Village with two wonderful girlfriends this week!
Cancer has consumed my every day, even my every hour for the past year, but it no longer defines me. Being isolated all day, every day was not easy. It is easy to forget how fortunate you are to be able to go to work, and go out with friends and ride the subway until these simple things are taken away from you. I am so excited that I moved back into a four story walk up apartment and that I get to set my alarm for 6am to go to work, and my immune system and energy level will let me hop on the subway or sprint through Penn Station to catch a train for a last minute weekend out of the city. Bring it 2019!
I do not have the right words to express my gratitude for “Team Eliza”. I cherish all of you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for being on “Team Eliza”. I am cancer free because of each and every one of you. Every text and phone call, all the homemade chicken soup, the care packages, the countless flights my friends purchased to spend time with me, co-workers who have had my family to their homes for holidays and weekends, the flowers and edible arrangements, the themed parties, all the t-shirt orders and donations. I could go on and on because I have never felt so loved. Your support kept me positive during the most painful times. Your love made me cancer free. Your donations saved my life. I promise to pay it forward. I look forward to volunteering at MSK on Sundays and working with Cycle for Survival, Fred’s Team and Cookies4Kids to raise money for rare cancer research.
Since my cancer journey has come to an end, I will not be updating this blog anymore. I am so blessed, thankful, and proud to be a Stage IV cancer survivor when every odd was against me. I ask for continued prayer for clean scans for all of my days, minimal post cancer fatigue and side effects. I look forward to getting back to life with all of you!
Love always,
Eliza